What Actually Makes Sex Better
Complicated techniques and long position lists are less useful than a short list of fundamentals done consistently. If sex is not where you want it, start here before collecting more advanced ideas.
The Fundamentals
- Correct stimulation for that body — many people need direct clit contact; many need a specific rhythm or grip. Guessing is slower than asking and observing. How to make them cum.
- Time and consistency — stopping every time you switch acts resets the build. Stay with what is working.
- Lube — fixes friction problems that get blamed on technique.
- A few positions done well — missionary, doggy, cowgirl with attention to angle beat ten positions done on autopilot.
- Low-stakes communication — “there,” “slower,” “that feels good” is enough to start.
